That is the opposite of my experience with the XM 400W 20K. Also, a friend of mine has that bulb over his 60g cube and grows SPS on the bottom of his 24" tank. The bulb has EXCELLENT par, so I don't know what you talking about there.
What reflector and ballast were you using? Did you measure your PAR with a meter?
The 20K XM is a direct competitor with the Radium 20K 400W in color and PAR. You must have had other underlying issues because to say that your SPS will not grow under it when it's a "time" proven bulb is a bold statement.
In no way is this message posted with an attitude, i'm generally interested in your experience with the bulb.
Jason