I just purchased a bubble tip yesterday and my clowns stayed away from it for about 20 hours. It moved from the spot I placed it to close to where my clowns were already nesting. I've seen my female clown nestle up to the nem but the em went from very healthy looking to deflated and not healthy looking. I don't think my clowns were too large for the nem as both could easily have fit in the nem without looking big. Has anyone ever had issues of a clown trying to host and it bothering the em?