You need to drill some anti-siphon holes in the return line where the water pours back into the tank. Drill at least two holes 1/2" beneath the normal water level in the tank.
Simulate a power outage. Unplug the pump, and make sure the sump can hold all the water that drains down. If you still have room, add more water to the sump. Now restart the pump. When everything is flowing normally 90 seconds later, draw a black line on the outside of the sump where the water height is in the return section of your sump. Now when you top off, you'll no <u>never</u> to add more than that line, because if you do and the pump turns off, the sump <u>will</u> overflow.
There is nothing you can do about your overflow box losing the siphon, besides watching it closely to make sure no air is being trapped in the apex of the tubes (or channel if it is designed like a weir).