I just did what you suggested and it made a big difference. However said:
The surging means its not getting enough air. You need to tune it. You don't want too much air coming in or it will make noise. Too little and it surges. You can go 2 ways.
Start drilling small little holes in the cap testing each time until the water level is consistent and the surging stops
Go with a bigger tube and if that fixes it try adding a valve to the tube to throttle down the air until it starts to surge again and then back off a little until it stops. Also test adjusting how much tube you have pushed down the durso to reduce the noise. There should be a sweet spot.
Like reeferwannabe said, it will take a couple weeks and it should quiet down (or you'll get used to it) but you shouldn't hear sucking or whistling, just the fall of water in the pipes and the air escaping once it gets down into the sump.
You can reduce the sump noise by dumping into a filter sock or have the drain pipe only go about a half or quarter inch into the water. Too deep and it's really bubbly sounding, not deep enough and it splashes.